Men Using Sex Toys: What’s it really like?The number of men using sex toys has definitely increased in recent years as the topic has become less taboo. However, I still think there are plenty of men out there who could benefit from the joys of using sex toys. So if you’re a man who’s been thinking about making things more interesting in the bedroom, then read on to find out what my experience was like. Hopefully it can help answer some questions you might have!
Men using sex toys
When I started thinking about using sex toys, I thought there were basically two types I could choose from: dildos and cock rings. However, much to my surprise, I found that there were plenty more things to tickle my fancy.
After browsing the internet for several hours (possibly more than was necessary), I settled on going for a dildo and a flesh light. Sure, my choices might seem a bit cliché, but it seemed like a good idea to start with some entry-level products.
However, using sex toys doesn’t have to just be for personal enjoyment, and they can make things much more interesting between you and your partner. I feel that when it comes down to sex toys, things like gender and sexuality really don’t matter. After all, everyone should be able to enjoy things in the bedroom.
What’s it like buying a sex toy?
The idea of buying a sex toy probably makes plenty of people nervous, especially men. First there’s the buying, then the shipping (or taking home if you’re buying from a physical store), then there’s the storage at home. While it would be a lie to say I didn’t feel nervous to begin with, it didn’t take long for me to get over myself.
Using them for the first time was an interesting experience, but with a bit of patience and plenty of lube, it was definitely an enjoyable one. It wasn’t long before I introduced my partner to my latest purchases, and they certainly made a difference in our sex life.
This was a couple of years ago now, and I’m so glad I got over the nervousness of buying sex toys. Honestly, they make such a good addition to the bedroom, and I love spending a bit of time with myself. My partner and I have branched out into slightly more adventurous toys too, and they make my first ones look pretty pedestrian.
Let’s get one thing straight (no pun intended): sex toys aren’t just for women or gay men, and straight men don’t need to limit themselves to just cock rings and flesh lights.
The joy of sex toys is that they’re accessible for everyone, and there’s something out there to suit all tastes and desires. More than anything, no one should feel any sense of shame or nervousness at the idea of buying sex toys. We all like to have fun in the bedroom, and there’s no reason why we shouldn’t look to mix things up every once in a while! So if you’ve been thinking about buying a sex toy, what’s stopping you?